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Je to jeho chov\u00e1n\u00edm, kter\u00e9 nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1te vy jako jeho rodi\u010de? V tom p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b nelze tvrdit, \u017ee je nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edm vin\u00edkem pr\u00e1v\u011b d\u00edt\u011b.\tV\u0161e, i kdy\u017e se to nemus\u00ed tak jevit, se zvl\u00e1dnout d\u00e1, mnohem podstatn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je to, jak\u00fd postoj si k tomuto c\u00edli zvol\u00edte.\t\tRodi\u010de by m\u011bli ur\u010dovat hranice\tPokud se na va\u0161em d\u00edt\u011bti projevuj\u00ed jist\u00e9 sklony k tomu, \u017ee se nechov\u00e1 dle va\u0161ich p\u0159edstav, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b jste n\u011bkde selhali a nen\u00ed divu, \u017ee se v\u00e1m vymyk\u00e1 zpod kontroly.\t\u2022\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Zam\u011b\u0159te se na probl\u00e9m, kter\u00fd jeho vystupov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159edch\u00e1z\u00ed.\t\u2022\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nevymlouvejte se na povahu, kterou m\u00e1 geneticky danou.\t\u2022\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 A ud\u011blejte maximum proto, abyste mu v\u0161echno vysv\u011btlili a posunuli se k lep\u0161\u00edmu.\tMo\u017en\u00e1 jste m\u011bli p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho starost\u00ed a povinnost\u00ed kolem sebe, \u017ee jste podcenili jeho psychick\u00fd v\u00fdvoj a nastalo v\u00e1m doma peklo, kter\u00e9 neum\u00edte ust\u00e1t. V moment\u011b, kdy se d\u00edt\u011b za\u010dne projevovat a chovat o n\u011bco v\u00edce jinak ne\u017e doposud, mus\u00edte pochopit, \u017ee je to sou\u010d\u00e1st jeho dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed a p\u0159irozen\u00e9ho r\u016fstu.\t\tNajd\u011bte probl\u00e9m a \u0159e\u0161te ho spole\u010dn\u011b. Jestli v\u00e1s tr\u00e1p\u00ed to, \u017ee se v\u00e1\u0161 mal\u00fd drobe\u010dek za v\u0161echno vztek\u00e1 a pr\u00e1vo na v\u011bci a aktivity si vydup\u00e1v\u00e1 pl\u00e1\u010dem, sna\u017ete se naj\u00edt p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu jeho emo\u010dn\u00edho rozpolo\u017een\u00ed. M\u016f\u017eete mu vysv\u011btlit (tak, aby to pochopilo), jak se v\u011bci maj\u00ed a pro\u010d nem\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt v\u017edy \u201epo jeho\u201c.\tU star\u0161\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed se m\u016f\u017eete setkat s p\u0159\u00edchodem ne p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 vesel\u00e9ho obdob\u00ed, jak\u00fdm je puberta. Ta sebou pochopiteln\u011b p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed i obdob\u00ed vzdoru, ur\u00e1\u017een\u00ed se, n\u00e1stup rychl\u00fdch a nevysv\u011btliteln\u00fdch emoc\u00ed a n\u00e1lad. T\u00edm si bohu\u017eel mus\u00ed proj\u00edt ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d a jasn\u00fd n\u00e1vod na to, jak pubertu va\u0161ich d\u011bt\u00ed p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt \u2013 neexistuje.\tRozhoduj\u00edc\u00ed je p\u0159\u00edstup rodi\u010d\u016f\tS va\u0161\u00edm partnerem byste m\u011bli dr\u017eet za jeden provaz. Va\u0161e n\u00e1zory, podm\u00ednky a pokyny k va\u0161im d\u011btem se mus\u00ed vz\u00e1jemn\u011b shodovat. Nehrajte si na hodn\u00e9ho a zl\u00e9ho rodi\u010de, ale dop\u0159ejte va\u0161im d\u011btem stejnou v\u00fdchovu z pozice obou rodi\u010d\u016f.\tI d\u00edky tomu snadn\u011bji pochop\u00ed to, co po nich po\u017eadujete a uv\u011bdom\u00ed si, \u017ee to nejsou jenom va\u0161e nesmysln\u00e9 podm\u00ednky, kter\u00e9 jim u tat\u00ednka\/maminky projdou bez probl\u00e9m\u016f.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                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